Watch After Dark with Kayise - Episode 05
After Dark with Kayise
Episode 05
- Season 01
In the premiere episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise Ngqula shares the deeply personal story behind the loss of her husband, Farai Sibanda, and the journey that inspired the creation of the series. She reflects on how they met, their life together, motherhood, the tragic car accident that changed her life, and the grief that followed. Through this honest and emotional conversation, Kayise explores resilience, healing and hope, introducing After Dark as a platform for authentic conversations that encourage others to find light after life's darkest moments.
In this episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise explores the deeply personal journey of grief and the realities of navigating life after loss. HR specialist Penny Mkhize shares her powerful story of losing her mother to gender based violence and reflects on how she found strength, purpose and healing through tragedy. Clinical Psychologist Lwanele Khasu provides professional insight into the stages of grief, healthy coping mechanisms and the importance of seeking support. Together, the conversations offer practical guidance and hope for anyone learning to live with loss and move towards healing.
In this thought provoking episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise tackles the urgent issue of gender based violence through a conversation with Tumelo Mabena, a rehabilitated former perpetrator who now advocates for ending violence against women. Together, they explore the factors that contribute to abusive behaviour, the impact of childhood experiences, accountability, rehabilitation and the role men must play in breaking the cycle of violence. The episode encourages open dialogue, reflection and collective responsibility while highlighting the importance of healing, education and creating a safer society for women and children.
In this heartfelt episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise explores the emotional realities of pregnancy loss and infertility through conversations with guests who share their deeply personal journeys. Khumo Ngwenya reflects on the loss of her baby at 16 weeks of pregnancy, the impact of grief and the path towards healing. Pastor Jerry Zwane and Karabo Zwane, founders of Hannah You Are Not Alone, discuss their experience with infertility, recurrent pregnancy loss, the challenges of fertility treatment and the importance of mutual support, faith and advocacy. Together, these conversations encourage greater compassion, understanding and awareness of the complex journey to parenthood.
In this episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise examines the intersection of grief, marriage and the law through the experiences of widows and legal experts. Sihle Seleke shares her remarkable journey of being widowed twice, the challenges she faced with her in-laws, and the emotional and legal battles that followed the loss of her spouses. Attorney Tebello Motshwane, founder of Sister-in-Law, explains the legal rights of surviving spouses, the importance of wills, inheritance, customary and civil marriages, and the protections available under South African law. Together, these conversations empower viewers with knowledge while highlighting the importance of legal preparedness during life's most difficult moments.
In this episode of After Dark with Kayise, the discussion explores the experiences of fathers who are committed to being involved in their children's lives but have been denied access. Solomon Mondlane and Jacques du Plessis share their personal journeys of parental alienation, legal battles and the emotional impact of being separated from their children. Charl Botha provides a legal perspective on parental access, family mediation and the challenges within South Africa's family justice system. The episode highlights the importance of prioritising children's best interests, encouraging healthy parent child relationships and avoiding the use of children as instruments in family conflict.
In this powerful episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise Ngqula sits down with Siya and Mandisa Dukashe, a mixed status couple who share their inspiring journey of living positively with HIV. Mandisa opens up about receiving her HIV diagnosis, the stigma and rejection she faced, and how love, family support and self acceptance helped her rebuild her life. Together, the couple discuss navigating marriage, intimacy, parenthood and raising children while managing different HIV statuses. They also explain the importance of treatment adherence, the science behind Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U), and the role of open communication in healthy relationships. Through their story of resilience, forgiveness and advocacy, the episode challenges misconceptions about HIV and encourages compassion, education and hope for those affected by the virus.
In this heartfelt episode of After Dark with Kayise, Kayise Ngqula sits down with Poko Rams to unpack the emotional impact of being ghosted in a romantic relationship. Poko shares her deeply personal experience of forming what she believed was a genuine connection, only for her partner to disappear without explanation. Together, they explore the confusion, self doubt and emotional distress that often follow ghosting, as well as the search for closure when none is given. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, emotional maturity and recognising personal worth, even when relationships end without answers. Through vulnerability and reflection, Poko offers encouragement to anyone who has experienced rejection, reminding viewers that healing begins by choosing self respect, accepting what cannot be controlled and moving forward with confidence.
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