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Ask A Man 10 Dec '25: 2025 Recap

As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

Ask A Man 8 Dec '25: Recap 2025

As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

Ask a Man 05 Dec '25: 'My wife doesn't seem to respect me.'

Anonymous has a problem with how her wife treats him and deals with conflict.  He says she doesn’t listen to him and doesn’t admit when she’s wrong. He adds that she also confronts and shouts at him in public spaces, and he feels like she doesn’t treat him like an equal partner in the relationship.

Ask a Man 4 Dec '25: I want to leave but I invested so much in her.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for 15 years now and they a child together.  He moved to another city this year because of a better job offer and says he took this job because finances were a problem in their relationship.  He started to notice that she became emotionally distant when he’d call her and wasn’t giving him much attention….

Ask a Man 03 Dec '25: 'My husband has 4 children with another woman'

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 21 years now and they have three children together.  Their marriage has had its challenges over the years, especially the fact that he doesn’t get along with her family.  He’s now confessed to anonymous that he’s been in a relationship with a lady that works in their business for 14 years now and he has 4 children with her.  He told her that he ended up being in a relationship with this lady because of how her family treats him.

Ask a Man 2 Dec '25: 'My partner won't let go his side.'

Ask a Man 01 Dec '25: 'My boyfriend is in complicated relationship with the mother of his children.'

Anonymous met a man about 6 months ago and says when they started dated he told her that he was in a complicated relationship with the mother of his children.  She says communication was fine in the beginning but it hasn’t been so great in recent weeks. When she questioned him about his change of behaviour, he told her that the mother of his child is giving him a hard time and that’s what’s affected him.  She’s not sure what to read into all of this and wonders if she should wait it out and see what happens in this relationship, or just  move on.

Ask a Man 28 Nov '25: 'Financially Frustrated'

Anonymous has been married to his partner for 9 years now and things were fine in their relationship until she lost her job. He feels like she blames him for losing her job, he has now also lost his job and feels frustrated by her expectations of him. 

Ask a Man 27 Nov '25: 'Should I take a second wife just for the bedroom?'

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years.  The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often.  He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s suggested he get a second wife and that’s what he’s grappling with.

Ask a Man 26 Nov '25: 'How did my partner and I lose our mojo?'

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been married for three years now. Their relationship is generally fine but the issue is in the bedroom.  They met during the Covid-19 pandemic and spent a lot of time together. While they had a hot sex life in the beginning, things died down just before they got married and they haven’t been the same ever since.  She’s not sure where they went wrong and feels like he’s lost interest in getting intimate with her.

Ask a Man 25 Nov '25: 'My partner's family condones his cheating.'

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 13 years now and says the problems in their started when she realised he was cheating back in 2021. She says it was hard for her to deal with this, and what made it worse was that his family knew and condoned it.  She has tried to move on from this but he doesn’t seem remorseful and she’s not happy with how his family handled the whole situation.

Ask a Man 24 Nov '25: 'How do I trust another woman?'

Anonymous was in an on-and-off relationship with his now ex-partner for the last 7 years.  He experienced a lot of betrayal and toxicity in that relationship and it’s left him in a position where he’s struggling to move forward and trust another woman. He’s asking us to help him to be able to open up to a new relationship.

Ask a Man 21 Nov '25: 'How can I fix my broken heart?'

Anonymous has two children and they have different fathers.  She was with the father of her second child for about 12 years and says it took her 6 years to heal from this relationship after things ended between them. She met another guy who was getting a divorce when they met. He cheated on her multiple times, and abused physically and emotionally.  She’s struggling get over the pain and the hurt of this relationship and doesn’t know if she’ll ever be ok.

Ask a Man 20 Nov '25: 'My ex is back but I've just met someone new'

Anonymous called us back in February and ended up breaking up with guy no.1 because  of the things he was doing in their relationship. Now, months later, she started building something with a man she met six years ago and things are going well, however, guy no.1 is back in her life and wants to make things work, and the prophet at her church told her that guy no.1 is the one for her. She feels like guy no.2 is great but she doesn’t know him that well and guy no.1 is really trying this time, so she doesn’t know what to do.

Ask a Man 19 Nov '25: 'My partner made it and but still wants my support.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 7 years now.  She didn’t work when they met, however, in recent years she found a job, and lives in another province because of this job.  The problem between them is finances, she is fairly accomplished now and has bought herself a car and a house. Despite this, she expects him to support her financially by helping her with her house, something he doesn’t understand as she has the means to take care of those things.  They are now separated as a result of this conflict in their relationship.

Ask a Man 18 Nov '25: 'Stuck between my family and my partner.'

Anonymous was previously in a long-term relationship and has a child from that relationship.  She feels like she was never really happy in that relationship but stayed in the relationship because her partner was very financially helpful of her and her family, which led to her family pushing her to stay in the relationship even though she wasn’t happy.  She eventually chose herself and realised she has a spiritual calling, through that journey she found a new partner…

Ask a Man 17 Nov '25: 'My partner gets out of control when we fight.'

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now.  When he entered this relationship, he already had 4 children from his previous relationships, they initially agreed that they didn’t want to have more kids but they now have two children together.  His issue is her style of dealing with conflict in their relationship as she gets physically and verbally violent.  The first time she got physical with him, he said to her that he would leave her if she reacts that way again, however, they got into a fight recently and she got physical again and even insulted anonymous’ first born son.  She went away after this fight but she’s now back home and he is struggling to forgive her and move on.